4.7.3 Marriage
The modern Aetolian wedding may sound very familiar. One party proposes to the other with a ring. If the proposal is accepted, the couple spends a minimum of two seasons "engaged" (HELP ENGAGEMENT). The wedding eventually takes place, wherein engagement rings are replaced with wedding rings. Females present wear silken gowns, typically of pale hue, while males typically wear dark suits and tuxedos. Parents and friends of the groom(s) and/or bride(s) attend, and one is chosen for each of the wedded to serve as "Best Man" or "Maiden of Honor". There are also rumors of some ceremonies allowing children to attend, with some bearing rings and others tossing flower petals. The individual presiding over the wedding is most often a priest or community leader, perhaps bestowing upon the couple the blessing of a particular Divine. This ceremony is derived from the ancient Aetolian ceremony of uniting souls, as described in HELP UNITY. See Also: HELP ENGAGEMENT, HELP UNITY